Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Baby momma drama!!!!
Why when you separate from the woman you have a child with things get complicated. Its always some bullshit. You can do your part to the fullest and still have issues with the woman you have a child with. The sad part is the child is the one who really suffers from this problem. How many argument's we are going to have over the same shit its always about money or why you can't come see your child in the middle of the night when you live like a hr away by public transportation. The biggest problem is when the the mother is receiving public assistance and you still give her money out your pay check and BAM!! you get a letter in the mail that you have to go to child support. now you looking like a deer in the middle of the road with the headlights on him. Now we in court and the money that was for our child now goes to the welfare system,because you lied and told them you didn't know where the father was at. My experience with baby momma drama is a roller coaster ride. So please fellas. know the woman u having a child with i thought I knew the person but I didn't even after waiting four years b4 we decided to have a child.
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sounds like a nightmare kid ...Us as man have to take care of ower kids no matter what cause at the end of the day they need us just as much as they need their mother
ReplyDeleteI agree with fleezybeatz 100%! Just to make a brief comment on the baby mama drama issues. I as a women, sister, daughter and single mother of a 16 year old son have never been the type to be a torn in somone's side. I'm to strong and driven to allow the judgement, habits and or character meaning my son's father affect my true mission and that's my son. I have had been on welfare twice my son's entire life, for a few months at a time because I refuse to fall prey to a system that has me by the hand. I can't talk about other females actions meaning the pros and cons on why they carry on as they do. I can only speak from my experiences in life. I never took my son's father to court, waist of my time, does he contribute to his son's well-being No!, However through it all I speak to him with respect and I never express my feelings in front of my son. My son see first hand his father's actions. The bottom line at the end of the day if you waited 4 years or 10, people are whom they are because they choose to be. That you and I can't control, what can be tho is your support towards your child(ren) no matter what! That's what really counts. We, do what we do for a better 2morrow. It's not easy but we must push on! FYI- I have a new website called xxpressionz.webs.com the theme is fanasty and fetishes JOIN NOW! official launch v-day 2010
ReplyDeleteI think our men (and women) need to make better decisions about who they have children with in ADDITION TO having safe sex.
ReplyDeleteNo, marriage is not an option for everyone, and a marriage doesn't guarantee that the relationship will last, BUT that does not mean that both people cant be mature enough to manage and create a successful partnership.